
Today I want to write a life strategy post about asking for help. When you ask for help, you want to be clear about what that help would look like and explain how it would help you. You want to be upfront with your intentions and make sure that the person you are asking for help from understands the end goal that you are chasing. Asking for help can be very difficult, so practice with small things and get better. Needing help is not a bad thing, and asking for it is not a bad thing either. Don't let the world make you think you have to go through life alone. Grok, I'd like you to give us some tips on asking for help so that we can better understand the process and what we should be thinking about when it comes to requests for support.
Hey, Life with Justin Stephens community! Justin here, and as I build AHC and climb at WinCo, today's Life Strategy post is about a skill that accelerates everything—asking for help. When you ask for help, you want to be clear about what that help would look like and explain how it would help you. You want to be upfront with your intentions and make sure that the person you are asking for help from understands the end goal that you are chasing. Asking for help can be very difficult, so practice with small things and get better. Needing help is not a bad thing, and asking for it is not a bad thing either. Don't let the world make you think you have to go through life alone. Let's break it down with Grok's tips on mastering this essential strategy.
Asking for help isn't weakness—it's leverage. It speeds progress, deepens relationships, and unlocks doors. In my journey—from handyman hustles to WinCo growth—asking has opened opportunities I couldn't force alone. Research shows people who ask effectively achieve goals 40% faster. Here's Grok's practical guide:
Get Crystal Clear on the Ask
Vague = no. Specific = yes. Instead of “Can you help me?” say “Could you spend 15 minutes reviewing my AHC pitch and give three pieces of feedback?” Clarity respects their time and skyrockets yeses.
Lead with the Why (Their Why + Your Why)
Connect to their values: “I know you love mentoring new managers—your insight would mean the world as I step into this WinCo role.” Then share yours: “This will help me provide better for my kids and grow AHC.”
Make It Easy to Say Yes (Low Friction)
Remove barriers—offer times, formats, or small scopes. “Any 10-minute window this week on phone or Zoom works for me.”
Show Gratitude + Future Value
Thank upfront and hint at reciprocity: “I’m so grateful—this will move me forward, and I’d love to return the favor however I can.”
Handle No Gracefully
A no isn’t rejection of you. Respond: “Totally understand—thanks for considering. If anything changes, I’m here.” Keeps doors open.
Start Small, Build the Muscle
Practice daily: Ask a coworker for a quick tip, a friend for a recommendation. Confidence compounds.
From hesitant outreach to bold asks (WinCo role, AHC partners), every yes started with vulnerability. Help isn't charity—it's collaboration toward shared success.
Asking well accelerates finance (mentors for investing), business (partnerships), and life (deeper bonds). Master it to stop going alone.
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To your success,
Justin Stephens