This week, I’ve been thinking about a simple but powerful idea: the importance of not burning bridges. In the heat of a moment—a disagreement, a frustration, or a parting of ways—it’s tempting to slam the door and walk away for good. But here’s the thing: you never know how someone might reappear in your life or what role they could play down the road.

People are like threads in a tapestry. Some connections seem minor—a coworker you barely know, a client you worked with briefly, a friend you drifted from—but those threads can weave back into your story in ways you’d never predict. That coworker might become a business partner. That client might open a door years later. That friend might be the one who lifts you up when you need it most. Burning a bridge doesn’t just cut off a person—it risks unraveling opportunities you can’t yet see.

I learned this the hard way. Early in my career, I had a falling out with a colleague over a project. It wasn’t pretty, and I let my pride get the better of me—short emails, cold shoulder, bridge torched. Fast forward a few years, and I ran into them at an event. They were leading a company I’d have killed to work with. The vibe was awkward, and I realized I’d closed a door I didn’t even know I’d want to reopen. Lesson learned: even when it’s tough, leave room for grace. A kind word, a respectful exit, or just staying civil can keep possibilities alive.

The power of not burning bridges lies in staying open. You don’t have to be best friends with everyone, but choosing respect over resentment keeps the future flexible. You never know who might hold a key—a recommendation, an idea, a connection—months or years from now.

Here’s my challenge for you this week: think of one relationship that’s strained or faded, maybe someone you’ve written off. Take one small step to keep that bridge intact—a quick note to check in, a thank-you for past work, or just a mental reset to let go of old grudges. If you’re feeling bold, reply and let me know how it goes—I’d love to hear!

Life’s too short to burn bridges and too long to not need each other. Keep the doors open—you never know who’s walking through next.

Justin

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PS - I have a weekly update that I will include on my dreams below, this is something I have been doing personally for more than 2 years now, and it is my guiding light for how I make decisions and decide what I want to be doing and chasing.

If you ever want to became part of what I am creating, you can sign up at www.justindcstephens.com for the Employee Empowerment Initiative.

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Justin Stephens

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